Power Of Love -

Making love work

Love is action – action born from feeling. it is the actions we take that in response generate particular feelings in the one we love.

To be loving is to love the person the the way They want to be loved.

Not the way we we want to love them and the way we think they should be loved.

When you love somebody,it is so natural to want to give to them,isnt’it ? but any kind of giving isnt’ necessary going to make them feel loved by you.only if in your giving you have made them truly seen and known by you . only if you give to them in way that makes them know that you honor their needs and have taken the time to pay attention.

Will they begin to feel safe in your presence.only then will they want to trust you and to open up to you more.then being loved by you will bring them pleasure and there will be a chance for real intimacy (cont…)